There are tons of books and talk shows which dedicate their efforts to educating women on the mysterious ways of the male species. But really, if women took the time to examine the wants of their counterparts, they'd be in for quite a few surprises. Take a look:
10- ALL BLACK SHOES LOOK THE SAME TO HIM. - Of course this may be somewhat of an exaggeration. But face it, Ladies...Men typically are not offered as many styles in the same color as women are. Therefore, that strappy black slingback, is EXACTLY the same as the peeptoe black slingback.
9- "HOW WAS YOUR DAY?" doesn't mean "How was your day?" - As insensitive as it sounds, when men ask this question, they typically do not want a play-by-play of your entire day. Quite frankly, it's boring. And unless you have something specific you want to discuss with him, he really doesn't care about your co-worker's son's Little League Game.
8- INITIATE SEX. - Yes, sometimes men want women to be a bit more aggressive in the bedroom, especially if they tend to make the first move most of the time. Men do enjoy a chase. But after being together for a while, they need to feel wanted as well. Initiate sex a bit more often, and you could see dramatic improvements in your sex life.
7- "NOTHING'S WRONG" means, nothing is wrong. - Sometimes that quiet, brooding type of man is simply having a quiet moment to himself. Women are the ones who ordinarily like to discuss and plan the details of almost everything. But men are more hands on. When they are quiet, it doesn't necessarily mean that something is wrong - only that they are thinking.
6- "I LOVE YOU" isn't always said with words. - Once women understand that men show love in a variety of ways, women will happier. Recognizing loving gestures will definitely help get the point across. Sometimes those three little words are being screamed loud and clear, with actions instead.
5- HE DOESN'T REALLY WANT TO KNOW ALL ABOUT YOUR PAST. - Sure, you've had honest dialogue about your previous racy adventures. But guess what? Men don't want to know EVERYTHING you've done, and EVERYONE you've done it with. A little mystery helps keep some of the fire alive. And besides, there is nothing wrong with keeping some private things, private.
4- DON'T BE A DOORMAT. - Whoever coined the phrase that nice guys finish last, was actually onto something. While this doesn't mean that you should be rude or inconsiderate to your sweetie, it does mean that you should stand firm about things you believe in. Don't cave in to every whim for the sake of keeping your man around. In the end, it doesn't usually work anyway. Stand firm in your beliefs, and you'll maintain not only your integrity, but a healthy relationship.
3- HAVE A LIFE! - Make sure that you've got something going on the side. No, not someone -something. Activities, friends, and hobbies are all important in keeping you sane. It's fine to do things together. But no one can stand to be around someone 24 hours a day without there being tension from time to time. The phrase "absence makes the heart grow fonder" has a huge ring of truth.
2- DON'T LET YOURSELF GO... - This doesn't mean bending your looks to satisfy the whims of your man. And it doesn't mean refusing to wear a particular style that he likes. Women should make sure that they feel as sexy as they did on the day they met their mates. A few pounds here and there may not make a difference to your beau. But if you've gained over 100lbs, first ask yourself if YOU'RE happy with it. If not, then do something about it - FOR YOU. A happier YOU makes for a happier "us".
1- COMPLIMENT HIM. - Men like and need to feel attractive too. However, make sure that the compliments are genuine. If you like the way he looks in his favorite shirt, say so. Not only is it a boost to his confidence, but it lets him know that he's still attractive to you as well! "
xdlov - Unusual topic on my blog, but interesting isn't it? If we could always remember these 10 things would it be trouble-free? Sadly, we can't because there many other people and problems in our lives (so do men of course). A thought just popped up, are all men (asian vs westerner) the same when it comes to love? I think so because they are all human (lol)!
Not only 10, other articles have 20, even 40. Now it gets complicated already. Frankly to say, woman are no less complicated. But in the end, we are very simple, we just happen to think too much. Some people are in wrong relationships and they don't even know eventually lead to drama, it's sad! I'm not an expert in this field but if the two walk on the same path, going through happiness and difficulties together, they are blessed, and I'm jealous.
Do you think a person can be influenced (be changed) by a society, either good or bad way? I do believe so. As I think asians and westerners are the same when it comes to love, they all dine out, late night talks, need privacy, etc; but they treat/impress their partner differently, what is your definition of good treat? How do you want your partner to be like? What makes you happy? Love always makes us to want more never less, human are avid, it's a challenge.